Looking for an anti-bucket list? Here you will find a list of 101 THINGS I actually refuse to do in my life.
Let’s chat about an anti-bucket list.
If you are the goal-oriented type, you may sit down and write a bucket list – all the beautiful things you would love to do during your one precious life.
Now if you are lucky and determined, some of these goals will get ticked off. Other people just lose their list or forgotten what they once upon a time dreamed of.
I on the other hand think it’s just as important to think about the things you DON’T want to do in your life.
So if it’s hard for you to sit down and think about creating a life you love, why not start right at the beginning and pinpoint the stuff you definitely don’t want to do or have?
And this is how my ANTI-BUCKET LIST idea was born. Honestly I believe it’s just as important to know what you don’t want in life as it is to know what you do want.
So without further ado, here is ANTI-BUCKET LIST – 101 THINGS I DEFINITELY DON’T WANT OR NEED IN MY LIFE
BE WARNED – THIS IS NOT A TRADITIONAL BUCKET LIST
ANTI BUCKET LIST
1 I don’t want or need toxic people in my life
2 I don’t want to worry about things that probably will never happen
3 I don’t want to feel like a sleep-deprived zombie (especially when it’s me who chose not to go to bed early enough)
4 I don’t want to make stupid excuses instead of taking responsibility for my actions
5 I don’t want to say yes to things that I should really say no to
6 I don’t want to pay more attention to my phone than I absolutely need to
7 I don’t want to say things that I didn’t really mean and will later regret
8 I don’t want to take my family and friends for granted
9 I don’t want to yell at my kids when I could deliver the same words in a kinder voice
10 I don’t want to miss out on opportunities that are given to me out of fear
11 I don’t want complain about silly things when I could let them go
12 I don’t want to get sucked into a gossip rant
13 I don’t want to see the worst in people when I could focus on the best
14 I don’t want to dream little when I could be dreaming big
15 I don’t want to hold onto grudges
16 I don’t want to be angry or unforgiving when I have the wiser option of letting things go
17 I don’t want to be my own worst enemy
18 I don’t want to procrastinate taking important steps
19 I don’t want to jealous or compare myself to others constantly
20 I don’t want to take my health for granted
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21 I don’t want to treat my body like it’s a rubbish bin
22 I don’t want to waste time when it is so precious
23 I don’t want to come to the end of my life and have regrets
23 I don’t want to think about doing things and never actually do it
25 I don’t want set a bad example for my children
26 I don’t want to forget to tell my loved ones how much I truly love them
27 I don’t want to be a hypocrite
28 I don’t want to be snob
29 I don’t want to be lazy
30 I don’t want to stay in a job I don’t enjoy
31 I don’t want to lose sleep over things that aren’t even worth it
32 I don’t want to set goals that I promptly forget about
33 I don’t want to prioritize the wrong things in my life
34 I don’t want to forget what is truly most important
35 I don’t want to feel scared about wearing my heart on my sleeve
36 I don’t want to feel embarrassed about being vulnerable
37 I don’t want to get stuck in a rut
38 I don’t want to feel like I can’t say what I want to say
39 I don’t want to choose negative emotions over positive ones
40 I don’t want to be wasteful
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41 I don’t want to be selfish unless than that selfishness encompasses self-care for me
42 I don’t want to be stubborn if that stubbornness really means refusing to take other people’s views and feelings into consideration
43 I don’t want to be right when I am really wrong
44 I don’t want to isolate others who already feel alone
45 I don’t want forget to kiss and hug my loved ones every day
46 I don’t want to forget the importance of rest and quiet time
47 I don’t want to think the world revolves around me
48 I don’t want to pin my hopes and dreams on someone else
49 I don’t want to not be proactive in my life
50 I don’t want to ignore my true feelings about things
51 I don’t want to ignore my intuition either
52 I don’t want to not show compassion and understanding
53 I don’t want to be repeat other people’s mistakes unnecessarily when I could learn from them instead
54 I don’t want to be ignorant
55 I don’t want to be self-absorbed
56 I don’t want to become addicted to social media
57 I don’t want to feel like I can’t or shouldn’t share the stories from my past
58 I don’t want to forget where I came from
59 I don’t want to think I’m better than other people
60 I don’t want to let other people think they are better than me
61 I don’t want to assume everything in life should be super easy
62 I don’t want to assume everything in life should be super hard either
63 I don’t want to not have a realistic expectation in life for the truth is good things come from smart choices and determination
64 I don’t want to feel disconnected with others
65 I don’t want to feel like a superficial connection with others via the Internet is enough
66 I don’t want to always feel time-poor
67 I don’t want my diary to be dominated by things that aren’t truly important
68 I don’t want my life to be entirely boring
69 I don’t want to feel like I don’t have time for the fun stuff
70 I don’t want to forget how to have fun
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71 I don’t want to act like I’m too busy for my parents
72 I don’t want to act like I’m too busy for my kids
73 I don’t want to allow my marriage to suffer due to lack of focus and special affection
74 I don’t want to ever stop learning
75 I don’t want to ever stop growing
76 I don’t want to grow old without having something to show for it
77 I don’t want to lack inner peace
78 I don’t want to lack self-love
79 I don’t want to be ungrateful
80 I don’t want to say I CAN’T when I really can
81 I don’t want to follow someone else’s path
82 I don’t want to let other people’s doubts get in my way
83 I don’t want to be surrounded by negative energy
84 I don’t want to be around people who tear me down rather than lift me up
85 I don’t want to assume I have tomorrow when I may not
86 I don’t want to think money is everything when it’s not
87 I don’t want to miss exploring the world
88 I don’t want stay down when I have fallen instead of picking myself up again
89 I don’t want my kids to think they can’t reach for the stars
90 I don’t want to not try and reach for those stars myself
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91 I don’t want to be stuck in survival mode
92 I don’t want to do things just because I feel obligated
92 I don’t want my life to have no purpose
93 I don’t want to NOT make a difference in at least one person’s life
94 I don’t want to ever stop dreaming
95 I don’t want to ever give up
96 I don’t want to hold onto things I no longer need
97 I don’t want to do tomorrow what I could have done today
98 I don’t want to keep things to myself that really should be shared
99 I don’t want to forget to focus on the lighter, brighter side of things
100 I don’t want to not realize how lucky we are just to be alive – for life is a gift
101 Finally I don’t want to forget to say THANK YOU for each day, each memory, every lesson and triumph on this amazing journey
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